SENIOR SPOTLIGHT
WRITTEN BY KARA HARPER, HEALTH & WELLNESS PROGRAM COORDINATOR
I first met Lavinia last October when she joined us for our City Stops Lunch at The Pub. She was invited to participate in our MOW Activities by a group of ladies from her apartment complex. “It was the older ladies who brought me in. They’ve been teaching me and helping me. I’m the youngest one in the bunch—I’m the baby. I’ve always helped people, so it was hard to get used to people helping me. These ladies have always treated me with kindness, friendship, and love,” she said, tears filling her eyes.
After hearing Lavinia’s story, I could understand why accepting help was difficult for her.
“I was a wild child in my 20s,” she admitted. Realizing she wasn’t where she wanted to be, she made a decision to take a different path. She took the initiative to go back to school at Brown Mackie College, where she earned her STNA license. She went on to work as a nurse’s aide for over 20 years, up until 2018. During that time, she fell in love with the profession—and with her patients.
“I spoiled everyone I was around. I enjoyed taking care of my people,” she shared.
She worked in nursing homes, one-on-one care, and private duty. “In the field of nursing, you name it, I’ve done it.” Serving and helping others became a part of her identity. And she hasn’t stopped helping people yet.
When I asked her what she wants this chapter of her life to look like, she responded without hesitation: “My story is complete. The reason it’s complete is because I’m doing everything I enjoy. I love the painting class. I loved the trip to the museum—getting a chance to learn about the art. I hadn’t been to the museum in a long time. These are all things I may never have done otherwise. I never thought I’d have the chance to get out and socialize with people, to understand people and to care for people.”
At this point, we were both emotional. I could feel how deeply she cares for others, and I reflected on moments when I had seen it in action. During our activities, she is always making conversation, complimenting others’ art work and offering heartfelt hugs. I’ve overheard her inviting first-timers to come back, making sure they feel included. Her love for people overflows in such a gentle, genuine way.
I left our conversation feeling grateful, encouraged, and inspired. Thank you, Lavinia, for continuing to serve our community with your kindness—and for allowing us to serve you.
Meals on Wheels of Southwest OH & Northern KY offers a wide range of health and wellness events and activities, both virtual and in-person, for older adults and seniors. They are designed to foster community, create connections and keep seniors engaged with their peers and their own wellbeing. View more about this program and check out upcoming engagement opportunities here!